First of all, from the bottom of our hearts, congratulations! Whether you just said "yes" yesterday or have been savoring that newly-engaged bliss for a few weeks, welcome. This is one of the most exciting chapters of your life, a time filled with love, dreaming, and the promise of a beautiful future.
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We created Ever After Things because we believe that every love story deserves to be told beautifully. We know that planning a wedding is about more than just picking colors and flowers; it’s about crafting a day that feels completely, authentically YOU. It's about finding those little things—the perfect cake topper, the delicate table runner, the heartfelt favors—that come together to tell your unique story.
This blog will be your friend and guide through it all. We'll be sharing inspiration, practical tips, and showcasing beautiful ideas to help you create your perfect day with more joy and less stress.
So, You're Engaged! Now What?
That magical moment has happened, the ring is on your finger, and you’ve told your family and friends. It's easy to feel a little overwhelmed by the big question: "What's next?" Before you dive into the deep end of planning, here are five simple first steps to take.
1. Breathe and Celebrate
Seriously! Before you open a single spreadsheet, take a week or two to just be engaged. Go on a date night. Pop a bottle of champagne. Enjoy the moment with your partner. This time is precious and you only get it once!
2. Dream Together (The Vision)
Before you think about logistics, think about the feeling. How do you want your wedding day to *feel*? Intimate and romantic? A huge, glamorous party? A relaxed, bohemian affair? Start a shared Pinterest board and pin anything that inspires you—colors, textures, locations, and moods. This will become the guiding star for all your future decisions.
3. Set a Budget
It’s not the most romantic step, but it’s the most important. Have an honest conversation about what you're comfortable spending. This number will influence every other choice you make, from your guest list to your venue.
4. Draft Your Guest List
You don't need final numbers yet, but creating a tiered list (A-list: must-haves, B-list: would-be-nices) will give you a rough headcount. This is crucial for finding a venue that’s the right size.
5. Choose Your "Big Three"
With your vision, budget, and rough guest count in hand, you can start researching the foundational pillars of your wedding: your Venue, your ideal Date, and your Photographer. Once these are locked in, the rest of the details can start falling into place.
Let the Fun Begin!
Once those big decisions are made, the real fun can start—crafting the details that make your wedding unforgettable. That's where we come in. From elegant table decor and unique ceremony essentials to thoughtful gifts and favors, we've curated a collection to help you bring your vision to life.
We're so honored to be a small part of your big story. Welcome to the Ever After Things family.
Here's to your 'ever after.'
- The Ever After Things Team